@heyjuliawoods · Julia Woods/Couples Coach
Saved 2026-05-15 · Posted 2024-05-26 · Status: New
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You are going to find more attractive, more romantic, sexier, more playful, more emotionally mature, more financially secure….people than your spouse as your marriage ages.
And you will likely be tempted at best to be jealous and at worst to leave your spouse for “an upgrade.”
The question is what does marriage mean to you?
Is it something you discard when something better comes along or the one you have feels worn out?
Or is it a vow you make for better or worse to choose each other everyday and keep partnering in upgrading the marriage you have?
How you define marriage is something you will each need to decide.
And it is vital conversations to have as a couple.
I invite you to save this post and I invite you to lead an open and honest conversation with your spouse about how you are each defining marriage and how you can support each other when you see a “newer or nicer” option.
***please note I’m not condoning staying in an abusive marriage.
And if you thought you were married to someone who was committed for a lifetime and later learned they wouldn’t, what can you learn and grow to choose newly and go again?
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Comments (13)
I don’t think this question is offensive. It’s common sense to think that and her answer is correct. She will probably find better than him too! It doesn’t matter if you notice it, it matters what you do once you notice/find it.
The why, is always more important.
Choose your choice 💀
It takes two...
🔥 beautiful point of view 🔥
Great point
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Marry her too
What if soon as we get married i divorce u n take half ur assets 💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻
Facts. 🔥
Go
Once my brother told me that íf you are going to get better than your spouse, are you going to change your spouse and definitely it hit hard!
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