@drjondabach · Jon Dabach, PhD | Relationship Coach
Saved 2026-05-15 · Posted 2025-02-18 · Status: New
The five pillars of a strong relationship are: friendship, love, honesty, loyalty, and respect.
But what’s the weakest? Love. ❤️
Love goes up and down. One day you’re in love, the next day you’re not. It’s all about emotions, right? But if one of the other four pillars is missing, the whole thing falls apart. 🏚️
So, what am I looking for in a partner? Someone who’s not just in a relationship with me—but a friendship. 👯
I want to be his best friend and for him to be mine. I need honesty, loyalty, respect, ambition, kindness, and empathy. 🙌
Because I’ve been with men who had zero empathy—narcissists. 😔 I’m full of empathy, and that matters. 💓
When I look at couples or see women on their own, the number one thing that’s missing? The friendship piece.
If you can’t be friends with your partner, you’re wasting your time. ⏳💔
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My question for you is and I, you won't get this, but that's fine if you're worth all those men that don't have empathy and don't have the caring and why were you with them?There are thousands of us out there that have all that, but you women.All ignorant, we're not what you want.You want that bad boy you want that narcissist
What u bring on the table if the man have all these 5 please be clear ur demand all ok what about man he have any right or demand also from u
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Yes
🗣 That's right
💯💯❤️❤️
They are NOT born yet.
This chick has been looking for a man forever! Maybe it’s her!
Transparency should be one of the first honesty is not the same as transparency
You heard that she been with alot men
Absolutely friendship and a partnership is the most important ship. That’s why people have a Tennessee to abandoned ship when the shit ain’t right.
Exactly... let me know baby
Those things are just no realistic. Just leave life without putting rules of engagement. Those are her own rules of pillars and are not compulsory to anyone. Rules are meant to be broken and it’s natural
It’s all an illusion. Expectations kills everything.
as long as you have respect the other comes naturally.