@ashley.hann · Ashley Hannawacker
Saved 2026-05-15 · Posted 2026-01-08 · Status: New
The ending 🥸😜🤪
🙅🏻♀️I DON’T WANT EQUALITY…
I want POLARITY.
I want to look up to my man. To revere him. Admire him. RESPECT him.
In the past, I’ve dated men who wanted my submission but never earned my respect.
Men who talked big… but lacked integrity.
Men who wanted leadership… but didn’t have the competence to back it up.
And to clarify,
When I say he needs to be smarter than me, I’m talking masculine domains like
Leadership
Money
Business
Politics
Direction
Etc.
I can out-intellect him when it comes to more feminine things like nurturing, beauty, fashion, emotional nuance, intuition, etc…
When those lanes are clear, polarity is electric.⚡️🫦
I don’t want to lead a man.
I want to follow one who knows where he’s going.
When a man has my trust and respect,
my femininity is effortless.
…and that’s that sh*% I like 😏😘
Any and all thoughts welcome! 💕
This was a big realization for me. 🙌🏼
#dating #feminineenergy #masculineenergy #dating #selfgrowth
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Comments (15)
And this happens sooo naturally with the right person 👏
Girl, same. Let me know where you find these men and what the waitlist looks like 😂😂😂
I submit when I trust in the decisions the man is making and in the vision that he has. It’s simple. The respect comes from him being my equal
This is all so true! Strong women need stronger men to flip the polarity so we can be soft. Love what you said here
I’m so blessed to have a man that can LEAD me and it’s the best thing in the world as a woman who is a natural independent leader
I would ever want any woman to ‘submit’ to me. I am incredibly surprised you said that.
The definition of ‘submit’ is: accept or yield to a superior force or to the authority or will of another person.
I just found this out myself. It's ... A revelation for sure🥰. I never thought I'd be ok with being a feminine woman but here we are. Out of the blue I realised oh wait, I don't need to be the man anymore because here is a real man! It took me 46 years to discover this rare man 😅
@ashley.hann …. As you know, I am a VERY alpha, independent woman. And I agree with and relate to the feeling of wanting to submit to a man I respect. I love having someone strong enough to lead. But we’ve got to talk about the masculine domains and feminine domains, my babe. There are very few men I know who know more about business or money than I do. I would hope that in 2025 we can have the ability to lean into and be taken care of by a man, without reliance on the old tropes that men are better at business or finance.
Very well said💯
I definitely am taking heed to this message. I needed to hear it from your angle which is the right one. Thanks
You are so beautiful🫶🏻
This is a lesson for men. Thank u for sharing @ashley.hann 🙌
🙌 💯
I heard you girl, but I was too busy admiring your top. Love it. Looks good on you 🖤
1000000% a mentor, emotionally stable, provider, keepings his words. Thats what we need🙌