@flourishwithlaurin · Laurin Ponce
Saved 2026-07-02 · Posted 2026-06-19 · Status: New
🧠 6 Dark Psychology questions
The right questions do something far more powerful.
They make people feel seen, understood, and emotionally engaged.
Connection isn’t built through talking about yourself.
It’s built through curiosity.
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The first two will make her think of the man she misses 😂
Don't ask the fish how to catch a fish. 😂
There's no way I'm asking a woman these questions on the very first date, I'm sorry
Nope, most women would find these questions way too invasive on a first date. Make her laugh, don't let her talk about other men she knows or knew and tell her you're not interested in hearing about them, then do the exact opposite of a dude trying to get laid. End the date early enough you can go out and do other things. It'll mess with her ego and That's what gets her to call you. You cheerfully take away the woman's historically-documented control of the first date. 😂
Did you get these from chat gpt? Lololol
I follow you for some time already and I think this time you are wrong, you're teaching pickup techniques, all this conversation Will lead to a one night stand and Will create a weak connection, as soon she notices that all those butterflies and curiosity about her "real self" does not come everyday, she Will feel bored, all that dopamine will not last forever...
Lol she discovered a pick up "artists" book. She is soooo far behind
Sounds like, tell me what you want and I'll pretend to be someone im not. It is ok for two people to be different and not right for each other. There is difference between changing yourself for someone and the movie line, "you make me want to be a better man".
Or i could save my money,time and peace of mind to play with my cat Freyja.🙌
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This post is about how to ruin a perfectly good first date with 6 questions!
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Good grief people never do this on a first date or you’ll be eating alone with wine 🍷 all over you!
Mostly Wrong.... "If tonight is our last night ..." if it's last night, why should anyone keeps talking let alone express a secret. "What's your deep fantasy ..." maybe they'll tell you after 6 months
These feel a bit manipulative and if it’s a first date, then it feels really manipulative
Yeah but that's not healthy for a long lasting fruitful relationship. Excess dopamine makes both people less productive, lazier, and less motivated to take on responsibilities
Sorry but it's bs. Might on a third or fourth date could work but if I tell this to a woman on first date might the date goes on if she won't leave u straight but I will be ghosted the next day. Experience 😂 Instead be yourself if you are looking for real connection if not just want a FB then who cares. You can find a bxxx for a tenner for a BJ. 😂👊💪
If I ask these questions then she'll want to talk. I'd prefer the silence & enjoy my meal.